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I call it the case of the missing obstacle. When you know something's stopping you, when you're sabotaging your own behavior, but you don't know WHY, it's time to delve deeper to see what the gunk is that's underneath the surface. If you don't figure this out, you'll stay in the exact same ?stuck' marketing place and not grow your business.

Here's a client example. ?Susanand I had been talking about sending out a specific letter to her network, for MONTHS. As I do with every client, I've given her 8 or 9 different examples of what the letter can look like. Heck, she probably even has it written already, but for some reason, it hasn't been sent out yet. And every time I ask what's going on, the answer is mumbled and unclear. I took a compassionately ruthless stand for her and asked if I could figure out with her what was going on. We dove in.
You hear people talk about ?Fear of Failure' all the time, but in my experience, ?Fear of Success' is just as prevalent. You see, Susan knows deep down inside that when she sends that letter of introduction about her services to her entire network (friends, family, clients, prospects, colleagues, former co-workers, etc.), she would essentially be ?outing' herself, she wouldn't be able to hide and play small anymore. She would eventually get lots of clients as a result (it's inevitable; I've seen it hundreds of times over).

This ?Fear of Success' was stopping her because it was combined with a nasty case of ?Fear of What Others Will Think.' What really kept her from sending the letter talking about her new business was imagining her former colleagues, those she did extensive training with, receiving the letter and thinking:
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Do you see how tricky this whole thing is? Getting stopped in marketing is not 100% lack of marketing knowledge. It's also that OTHER invisible stuff, which is holding us back that we don't see or can't touch. And when you eliminate it, when you pop those balloons of fear and limiting beliefs, then there's nothing left to hold you back.
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Your Client Attraction Assignment:
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